Have you ever felt stressed during traffic jam, gotten upset to the point of wanting to yell.
This happens because your nervous system is conditioned to react stressfully in that situation.
But what if you could respond differently. Rather than freakout, take some deep breaths and realize “I’m a traffic jam, how can I make the best use of my time right now?”
By doing this you avoid excess stress and emotional pain, along with wasting energy on being unproductive. In turn you make better use of your time and create more healthy energy for yourself.
Some things you can to are call a friend, listen to a podcast or good music, tell yourself, “I love myself unconditionally,” or remind yourself how grateful you are to have a car. These are just a few examples. There are a number of things you can do to increase your wellness during that time….
What is something you would do?
How do you Regulate the Nervous System?
Practice
What are your stress triggers?
Take a moment and write them down.
Examples of Stress Triggers:
Weather
Politics
Family members
Loud noises
Violence
Certain smells
Your work/job
Travel
The unknown
Meeting new people
Your health
Money
How to Heal Stress Triggers
Go to calm relaxing space like a quiet room or out in nature.
Take 10 deep breaths
Get into a calm state of mind
Close your eyes and visualize being in the situation that normally triggers you, but instead being calm and peaceful in it.
See yourself handling the situation with ease.
Example: see yourself having a positive interaction with the family member that normally stresses you out. See yourself being present with them and listening to them. See yourself articulating your thoughts and feelings in a calm manner to them.
Practice doing this until you feel peaceful about the situation that used to stress you out.
Don’t be surprised how good you feel in that situation next time you are in it.
Do you suffer from sleeping problems like insomnia? You definitely want to hear this.
The number one cause of insomnia is stress. However, it’s not always clear as to what is causing the stress.
I’m going to help you figure that out. Along with what you can do to overcome the stress so you can sleep better at night and have more energy during the day.
The top things you need to do to sleep better are:
Remove electronic devices, such as TVs, computers, and smart phones, from your bedroom.
Avoiding large meals, caffeine, and alcohol before bedtime. No food 3hrs before bed and no caffeine 8hrs before bed because it can take up to 8hr to clear out of your body. If you rely on caffeine for energy and can’t function without it comment before.
Get some exercise. Being physically active during the day can help you fall asleep more easily at night.
Using room-darkening shades, earplugs, a fan, or other devices to create an environment that suits your needs.
Do calming activities before bedtime, such as taking a bath or using relaxation techniques can promote better sleep.
Spend time outside in natural sunlight during the day has been shown to improve sleep.
All the info you just read is all available through a quick Google search, however I find many people don’t want to make the changes necessary to improve their sleep.
Here’s why…..
Food, caffeine, alcohol, and entertainment are providing the person with a feeling of pleasure.
Are you someone that struggles with changing your lifestyle habits, even though you know they aren’t good for you and have a negative impact on your sleep?
#1 reason that stops a person that knows better is negative feelings about oneself.
Pray every day – Connect with Jesus Christ/God and ask for the strength and power to overcome your negative feelings.
Example of a prayer is:“Thank you Jesus for providing me the strength and energy to overcome the negative feelings I have about myself.”
Pray first thing in the morning and before bed for strongest impact.
Next, connect with those negative feelings. Ask yourself, why do I have these feelings?
It’s important to be aware of why they are there, so you can deal with them accordingly.
For example, if you have negative feelings about yourself due to feelings of guilt. It’s important to forgive yourself for your past mistakes or failures. If you need help forgiving yourself, ask Jesus for support.
Prayer:Thank you Jesus for giving me the strength to forgive myself for my past mistakes and failures.
These types of prayer help you to surrender, so you can let go of the emotional pain limiting your life, stressing you out affecting yourself.
If negative feelings are not responsible for your struggles with stopping habits that keep you await at night.
Ask yourself, “What feeling do I want more of.” Often it is something very simple like comfort, joy, love or calmness.
Use similar prayers as above to fill your soul with what you need to feel full.
Example of prayer:Thank you Jesus/God for giving me to strength to experience more calmness in my life.
Find the prayers that work well for you and spend a few minutes doing them every day. Overtime you will feel more enriched.
If you would like more help getting over your sleeping troubles I can help you through my Distance Healing Sessions.
In this blog I’m going to tell you how to overcome the Obstacle of Time when it's interfering with your health.
Not having enough time is one of the most common excuses people use as their reason for not being healthy.
I get it. I've used the excuse of time many times. But I realized that it wasn't helping me. It was only holding me back.
Have you ever said:
I don’t have enough time to exercise.
I don’t have enough time to meditate.
I don’t have enough time to prepare healthy meals.
I don’t have enough time to go see a practitioner that will help me.
The real reason behind it if you use time as an excuse is you are not making the time. And it likely you just haven’t developed the skillof how to best utilize your time.
What if you had massive success doing what you need to do to achieve your health goals. Would you make the time then?
If you feel short on time for health or want to make more time to create better health for yourself start with looking at where you could be wasting your time.
How much time do you spend watching TV per day, scrolling social media, or some other form of entertainment that only gives you short term happiness. But doesn’t move you any closer to your health goals?
The US average daily stats for watching TV, social media, gaming and browsing websites are:
TV – 3hr 16min
Social Media – 1hr 27mins
Gaming – 1hr 46mins
Browsing Websites – 51mins
That’s over 7hrs per day if someone is doing all these things. Over 49hrs per week, over 196hrs per month and over 2352hrs per year.
But say you are only consuming 1hr per day. That’s 7hrs per week, 28hrs per month and 336hr per year.
How different would your health be if you invested that time into your health (or another important goal)?
Your time is more valuable than money.
If you were offered $100million dollars, but you would have to die tomorrow would you take the money or would you want to live longer?
Leave a comment below with your answer. But I’m guessing you would choose to live longer.
To value time, you must change your mindset of it.
It can be difficult at first if this is a new perspective for you.
To help, wake up each day and remind yourself, “I’m going to make the most of this day and my time.”
To help with that write out WHY TIME is so valuable to you.
Write out at the beginning of each week what are 1-2 most important things you want to do each day for your health and make sure you do those things within the first 2hrs upon waking.
Once you develop the habit of this you will see how beneficial this is for you and the changes that come along with it.
Comment below if you know what 1-2 of the most important things are for your health goals.
If you would like to learn more about how to better use your time to achieve your goals I recommend reading or listening to the audio book The 4-Hour Workweekby Tim Ferris. It will help you develop the skills you need to better utilize your time and more.
5 Obstacles That You May Face When Pursuing Health Goals
Sunday, January 14, 2024
Do you have a big health goal you want to achieve?
But feel there is something getting in your way of achieving it?
You are not alone.
As a teenager I wanted to learn how to heal myself because I had several symptoms that made me feel awful.
Little did I know that this goal started shifting my life in a direction that I could have never imagined.
Something you are likely aware of though, when you set goals, obstacles begin showing up because you start moving out of your comfort zone into the unknown.
I’ve learned that there are 5 Big Obstacles you want to be aware of, so you can deal with them if they arise.
Knowing what the obstacles are and how to deal with them makes it much easier to overcome them. Then you don’t get stuck or lose faith in yourself and give up on your health goals.
Look at obstacles as an opportunity for growth. On the other side of them is the thing you really want.
5 Big Obstacles that show up when pursuing your goals:
Time – “Believing you don’t have enough time to do the thing you want.”
Money – “Believing you don’t have enough money to purchase what you need.”
Spouse – “My spouse won’t allow me or doesn’t support me going after goal.”
Fear – shows up when you view your life from a place of lack, victimhood, doubt and or failure.
Shame and Self-Doubt – this is signaling that past failures are controlling your reality.
When I first wanted to go to Chinese Medicine College to become a TCM doctor my girlfriend at the time told me if you do that, I will break-up with you.
She thought it was weird and gross and I allowed her opinion to influence me out of going at the time. So, instead I signed up at the local community college to pursue a degree in Environmental Technologies.
However, 1 month later we broke up. I was already signed up for the Environmental program, but something felt off the whole time.
When I began the program, I started getting a strong voice in my head saying, “YOU NEED TO GO TO CHINESE MEDICINE SCHOOL.”
I tried to ignore the voice, but it kept getting louder and louder, until finally, after being in the program for just 4 days I told myself, “Enough, I will go to Chinese Medicine School!”
That day, I called the Chinese Medicine College and asked them if they had space for me.
I was put through to the dean and he said “Yes, we have room for you. Come in on Monday to start."
In that moment a huge weight lifted off me.
The first day I started everything felt right. I knew I was in the right place, and it was one of the best choices I made for myself.
From making that one choice it opened so many more doorways for me to improving my health, overcoming many symptoms, along with helping people all over the world.
None of this would have happened if I didn’t take the first step. Plus, I met Keri at Chinese Medicine College.
Next week I’m going to release the info on how to work through the 5 Big Obstacles, so you can achieve your health goals easier. Stay tuned…
Have you ever worried about getting together with family over the holidays because one or more members has a tendency to make you feel uncomfortable? And do you wish these people could just be nicer and more compassionate?
Me too. I used to struggle with judging people before getting together due to some stressful interactions in the past. As a result, this made me even more stressed and worried something bad might happen again.
That all changed years ago when I discovered a simple Energy Healing Technique that helped me let go of old pain and heal those relationships.
Watch Video to discover how to Heal your Relationships
Becoming clear on the things in your lives that are driving your body towards negative stress and less joy is huge for healing.
You may know right away what your top stressors are. However, if you don't, you may have gotten used to living on auto-pilot and may not even recognize that you have any stress at all.
Getting in touch with what is creating negative stress and less joy is crucial for your healing so that you can consciously choose to change it.
Below is a guided intuitive meditation. I suggest getting quiet with yourself to ask your body what your biggest stressors are and what you can do to bring more ease, peace and joy into these areas of your life. Or, if you need to let these stressors go, what is blocking you from doing so?
Questions to Ask Yourself
What areas of my life are holding stress for me?
What can I do to bring more peace and ease to these stressful areas of my life?
Do I need to let them go?
Do I need to do something different?
What is my body asking for in these situations or stressful areas?
What area of my body am I holding this stress?
How do I release these stressors from the tissues, organs of my body?
Join me in this Guided Healing Meditation to Connect with your Heart.
In this guided meditation I take in on an intuitive journey to see what lies within your heart.
I use this meditation when I need answers about making important decisions and to bring in new information into my consciousness to support positive change.
So, if there are questions you need answers to, relationships you need healing with, set aside 24mins to connect with your heart.
This is something I have been doing for many years and I feel that it has been a huge factor in my development and nourishing of my healing abilities, along with the maintenance of my own health.
What I am referring to is Meditating with a Tree.
You know that feeling when you go for a walk or spend time in a forest; how relaxed and balanced you feel during and after.
That is because you are taking in some of the healing energies available to you. So, what if you took the time to place your hands on a healthy tree and allowed yourself to feel the energy that it wants to share with you on an even deeper level?
This is what I do. More specifically, I ask if the tree has a message for me, if it has a healing for me and if it has anything it wants to share with me.
You see trees have spirits too, they are alive, and they communicate through frequency. Once you attune to the frequency you can understand their language. But that is for another conversation.
If you want to increase your life force, as in help your body be and feel healthier, heal faster from illnesses and injuries, become more adaptable to stress, increase your intuition and simple become more resilient I recommend doing this simple of act of Meditating with a Tree.
The act of Meditating with Trees has a long history and there are many great people throughout history that proclaimed they gained healing power and enlightenment via meditating with a tree.
Two specific people are Buddha and Jesus Christ.
How I Meditate with a TREE
The way I meditate with a tree is I look for a strong healthy tree somewhere where I will not be disturbed (this can even be in your own yard). I stand in front of it placing my hands on the trunk in a comfortable location with my eyes closed. I breath naturally and allow myself to feel the energy of the tree.
The more you do this the more sensitive you become to the subtle energy of the tree.
If you have never done this before I recommend using the same tree daily to develop a relationship with it. You will be amazed that overtime you will feel the love from that tree before you even touch it because it will be projecting to you when you are close by and even from further distances.
To help deepen your relationship with the tree ask it questions like the ones I wrote above. Along with asking it, “is there anything I can do for you?” Trees love it when you give back to them. This can be as simple of projecting love to them or visualizing them healthy.
If you are hearing for the first time, it might sound strange. But, think about it, you have nothing to lose. If anything, you have much to gain.
I’d love to hear from you. Let me know if you have ever meditated with a tree and what your experience was like?
Just this morning I was admiring an ancient tree who lives next door to us and telling it how much I love it and hope it lives many more years. I thought about sitting up against it but it's really cold here! Tomorrow I will put my hands on it and tune in. Thank you for this spirit message Adam! Lizz
My family and I were exposed to Covid-19 on March 24. First of all I want to let you know we are all doing good.
We have all experienced some minor symptoms that have come and gone like sore throat, mild coughing, loss of sense of smell temporary and headaches. Thankfully no breathing troubles or fevers.
I know we will overcome this because we have strong immune systems from eating well and we are taking specific supplements and essential oils that are supporting are immunity during this time.
One thing Keri and I made sure to do when we first heard about Covid-19 was to make sure we had the supplements and essential oils in our house we needed in case we did get exposed.
Another thing I do everyday is to make sure that I am connecting with the energy of unconditional love everyday.
Unconditional loveboosts immunity, promotes healing and clears stress. Something that is very important with all the fear and scarcity right now.
Information is power my friend and I want to let you know that Keri (my wife) and I are sharing everything we are doing in specific details and why we are doing it to optimize our health during Covid-19 and our recent exposure.
If you are a person that falls into the high risk group, then this information is particularly important to you.
High Risk Group Includes:
Age 65 years and up
High blood pressure
Cardiovascular issues
Chronic lung disease or moderate to severe asthma
Obesity
Diabetes
Liver disease
Kidney disease
Immunocompromised: including cancer treatment, smoking, bone marrow or organ transplantation, immune deficiencies, poorly controlled HIV or AIDS, and prolonged use of corticosteroids and other immune weakening medications.
If you would like to find out what we are doing, along with take part in a Group Healing to boost your immunity, ability to heal and clear stress, fear, anger, worry, sadness to help bring you back to a state of balance check here.
2. Ask what is going on with the person. Example of a question is, "What is the root cause of the person's pain?"
3. Listen. Using my intuitive abilities I listen, feel, see or know the answer to their symptoms.
4. Heal. Once I know the root cause, I ask what the person needs in order to heal from their symptoms.
Often the person needs a specific high vibrating frequency like Unconditional Love to heal. So, I direct that frequency to the person to promote healing and repair.